I've also noticed I often don't receive a "thank you" when I hold a door open for someone. I have found myself plenty of times biting my tongue to prevent myself from giving a sarcastic "your welcome!' But this is beside the point...
While thinking about this I have noticed one peculiar constant. The offenders usually seem to be older. Is this because it's unexpected coming from someone younger and they are thrown off? Is it because they are just getting crotchety? Has the Bel-tone been turned down and they just can't hear it? Who knows... but if anyone has any insight into this, I would love to hear about it.
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You young people are so testy!
Speaking as a "middle aged" person, if someone holds the door for me, I always say thank you, and take it a step further. For example, if I'm going into the post office, and a man holds the door for me, then when we get inside, I then make sure that same man gets ahead of me in line, because after all, if he hadn't held the door for me, he'd have been in line ahead of me to begin with. I've done this many times. Keep being polite, no matter what response you get, okay?
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